One Fourth of July back in my Northeast Iowa days, my sister Bethany, my dad, and I were outside waving (and throwing) sparklers. I was eleven, so this was the best thing ever.
But then, for some still-unknown-to-this-day reason, Bethany decided to try something new with her sparkler: a heat test. And I was the subject of this experiment.
While I was naively waving my handheld fireworks display, writing my name in the air again and again, Bethany came to where I was standing. She looked at me. I probably looked back, admiringly with little-brotherly love. Then she brought her actively-sparkling sparkler down, touching it to my wrist.
Ouch.
As an eleven year old, I didn't know how to react. Well, actually I did. I yelled and screamed and cried. Our dad heard this fiasco, came our way, saw me clutching my wrist, sobbing, and pointing accusatively at Bethany.
Bethany got in trouble. I got ice cream.
While this short story (and probably biased memory) portrays Bethany as a mean big sister, don't let this incident permanently taint your view of her. I was the little brother. I deserved any torment I received (except for the tickling). And Bethany and I actually had (and have) a great relationship with numerous "good" stories to outweigh the "bad." This one just happens to stand out - perhaps due to the faint scar I still carry on my wrist. And now every time I pick up a sparkler, I think of my loving sister who taught me one simple truth: sparklers hurt.