"I don't know what 'happy ending' is. Life isn't about ending, is it? It's a series of moments. And, um, it's like, if you turn the camera off, it's not the ending, is it? I'm still here; my life's not over."
Tim Canterbury utters these words into the camera in his last cut shot of the series finale of The Office.
And it's true, life is not about ending. Life is a series of moments. It's a flipbook, made up of endless images, always coming from one to another to another to another.
In some ways there is no such thing as "the present." How long does "the present" last? One second? But that can be split into two half seconds. Which can be split into two quarter seconds. And so on until "the present" is lost between the ever decreasing time of the past and the future. "The present" is the space between the pages on the never ending flipbook called life.
But in other ways "the present" is all that exists. This moment, this page is all that is, all that ever is. The past is nothing but recollection and the future is nothing but anticipation. They both exist as thought, nothing more. But "the present" happens now and therefore truly is. "The present" is this page, however fleeting it lasts before it turns to the next.
I heard Don Miller once talk about the moment he realized that the world existed for more than him. He was in middle school and he and his friend were walking home. As they parted ways Don realized, for the first time, that his friend's life would keep happening, even as Don walked away from it. Life doesn't have to happen to me in order for it to continue happening. Just as Tim from The Office said, "if you turn the camera off, it's not the ending."
This is why stories are so powerful as they allow us to glimpse at the turning pages of someone else's flipbook. Whether we hear it or read it or watch it, we enter their story, connect with their emotion, and vicariously discover life bigger than our own.
In this present moment, you are alive. As we share and tell stories with the people around us, we remember and we anticipate the moments behind us and before us. But in it all, each moment exists here and now and never again. Each moment leading to another and another and another. "I'm still here; my life's not over."